I was in love with this married man. He was an office colleague who has now quit. Though it has been a while now and I'm trying to get on with my life, I can't forget him. I know it is wrong as I am married. What I regret is that it was because of me that our relationship finished. As he was also married, I used to keep on reminding him about it. This used to irritate him and he started distancing himself from me and he ultimately changed jobs.